Honoring the Ongoing Stories

Death may end a life, but it does not have to end a relationship. This page is dedicated to the vibrant, living memories of those who are no longer living and who continue to inspire us. We invite you to share the stories, rituals, and love that keep your connection alive.

People You Love Who Have Died

Animals You Love Who Have Died

Complicated Deaths and/or Difficult Relationships With a Person Who Has Died

Share Your Story

People would love to be introduced to your loved one. You can use this space to share a few things about those who are important to you who are no longer alive. Once your post has been reviewed by the website administrator, it will be shared with other bereaved people on this page WITHOUT your last name, any identifying information, or email address.

I have listed some possible questions that you can write about, but use this as a prompt if it fits for you or you are free to write about what is in your heart.

You are also free to upload a picture of them too if you would like.

If you are struggling or would simply like to have a conversation about growing this connection with your loved one, you can email Lorraine to schedule a consultation.

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The Power of Shared Remembering

At Remembering Practices, we believe that speaking the names of our loved ones and sharing their impact helps cultivate a life-giving narrative. When you share here, you contribute to a community of “re-membering” that supports others in finding their footing through the power of storytelling.

  • Privacy First: Our administrator reviews all submissions. Stories are shared on our blog without last names, email addresses, or identifying contact information.
  • A Living Tribute: Your words serve as a testament to the fact that your loved one still holds an important place in your life that inspires you, creating meaning and purpose.
  • Community Connection: Read how others are finding comfort and strength by keeping their loved ones’ voices present in their daily lives.

Prompts to Help You Begin

If you are unsure where to start, consider these questions as a guide. You are welcome to use them as a framework or simply write whatever is currently in your heart.

  • Who were they to you?
    Tell us their name and the nature of your connection.
  • What defines them?
    Describe their character or the specific things you love most about them.
  • What did they teach you?
    Reflect on the lessons or values they instilled in you that you carry forward today.
  • What does knowing them mean to you?
    How has your life been shaped by their presence?
  • How do you stay connected?
    Share the words, rituals, or memories that help you feel their love today.

Seeking a Deeper Connection?

If you are struggling with a loss or would like professional guidance on how to grow and nurture the connection with your loved one, Dr. Lorraine Hedtke is available for private consultations.

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